Ladies Play: Good Catch or Bad Catch (an HONEST GAME!)?
Question by Jimmy C: Ladies Play: Excellent Catch or Terrible Catch (an HONEST GAME!)?
Firstly, plz be honest, as honest as you can be:
I’m 25
Pros:
1- nice car (Lincoln, Town Car)
2- nice/huge house,
3- fantastic, stable job
4- (friends say) i have excellent looks
5- respectful, excellent manners, etc
6- education (college certification + upcoming BA in a month)
Cons:
1- i have OCD/OCPD & tourette’s syndrome (meaning that im obsseive with sanitation, uncleanliness= kills me). I take pills for it, but still obssessed. Everything’s sterlized in my house.
2- I’m so obssessed, I preclude my gf to come over - only cause she doesnt wash as the first thing she does… she doesn’t place away her shoes… i dont want to tell her because I’m worried I may lose her… i get ticks/shaky eyes/hands when that happens
3- I only keep tuna fishes, Hungry Man at home, i only eat canned fruit… canned food, …
I’m so frightened that my gf may leave me anytime! we’ve been collectively for nearly 2 years, never had sex… and she’s my first gf… nobody wants to get caught up with me
well ofc i try to be normal, but i just cannot. I do take pills, but that’s not helping that much. And pelase, remember the question: am i a GOOD CATCH or BAD…
Best answer:
Answer by ther3
Having a huge house is useless if I can’t come over.
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A further con is your ability to be over-confident with your looks.
You need to get that checked.
Don’t come off too self-satisfied. ;]
You need to relax and have more fun.
You sound like you are a tight butt.
Relax and let loose.
Just hope that your girl-friend understands, and if she doesn’t.. then there are other fishes in the sea. Don’t be sad. =)
remove that stick from your bumhole please! she must like your quirks and such if you guys have 2 yrs collectively but you need to loosen up
1. Have sex, you may be less an@L in this area the shoes and stuff…you need to relax.
2. any goals in life or do you just want to own nice things and have a nice wife and have a nice job.
——Go Travel and leave everything behind—-
ok….honest answer..well i have never meet anyone like you b4. I know you said your obsessed but have you tried to not be so obsessed. Like invite her over and if she doesnt place her shoes away fine. leave them. try not to clean constantly. try to be ….normal. I am sorry but i would have so much fun if i knew somene like you. Not in a terrible way though, you sound kewl.
underneath line if she cant respect you and what you want and basicly need then you shouldnt be with her
i have OCD too (not that terrible) but i know its completel hell not to have things the way you need them
like i like to have things even and if their are three pairs of shoes out and not two or four and i cant change it it drives me crazy.
so i mean tell her nicely and just tell her how its not you being mean to her its just the way it is with her and tell her how much you like her and you dont want to loose her.
things will work out - and by that i mean if she does leave (i dont see why she would it isnt anything huge you are asking) then you will get somoene who does want to be iwth you.
I reckon i wouldb e iwth you you seem very sweet. and the whole eating thing and the cleanlyness its a huge deal alot of girls will like that.
excellent luck like.
You sound like a fantastic man. It may take some getting to know you before a woman will go out with you-in anticipation of they get to know your right self. P.S. I have a terrible hand-and all my friends have had horrible lives and there are starving kids everywhere. I’m not saying this to discourage you…Just asking you to go on since you can’t change it. Might as well make the best of it…
I reckon you’d be a fantastic catch overall. I mean - hey - you’re honest by the looks of it. Okay yea, there are some things in this area you that a woman may have to “adjust” to, but I mean, if you’re worth it then she’ll be okay with it. Everyone has their quirks and all (I certainly have mine….I get really uncomfortable when things aren’t cleaned or done the way I’m used to or like!) and it may be just that you have more quirks than most people. If you’ve been with her for two years, its time to just the gun and let her in on more of these small secrets if she doesn’t already know them. She can probably tell you’re keeping some things from her (because you’re frightened of loosing her, right?) and would liked to be let in on some of them. The only aspect that you may want to work on is letting your girl friend over….just as she’ll need to get used to your quirks and get used to letting you have your space, you need to let her have hers. You may possibly try and hint at the problem you see with her coming over (say it politely and apologetically, if its been a two year relationship, she’ll probably know) but suggest that you two meet in the middle and work on the situation collectively. In a way, you sound kinda lonely in your quirks. Don’t be! There are so many of us out there!
My bf’s family is like that, everything must be a certain way, clean, and honestly it kills me…but they have not been diagnosed with OCD so its uncommon. You have a disorder and your gf and friends have to respect that. If she doesnt than maybe she’s not right for you…As for the pros, money and other material objects do not matter, its your personality that should. I cant judge from an online site but you seem sweet so you’re probably right, you are a excellent catch and people should respect your differences and special needs.
Why would she leave you ? Being honest , your ‘resume’ up there is pretty impressive ! If you’ve been collectively for 2 years , how can you not see there’s SOMETHING going on between you , and if it weren’t for that , then you probably wouldn’t be collectively.. Nearly 2 years without sex , no less! But, man , excellent catch! Even though you’re OCD , you’re still a pretty excellent guy. The fact that you were able to catch your problem is proof enough.I’m being completely honest here , so I hope I was able to help..
The real one will like you unconditionally, no matter what, with all your excellent and terrible. If she leaves you, when you tell her, she doesn’t really like.
And I am hearing, communication is key to any relationship.